Speaking

Emi Nietfeld is an energetic, in-demand keynote speaker who connects with college students, employee resource groups, and helping professionals alike.

View her Speaking Profile here.

Emi is represented by Alysyn Reinhardt at the Penguin Random House Speakers Bureau.

Speaking Topics

The True Meaning of Resilience

Emi Nietfeld rejects the easy label of an “overcomer.” Even though she kept her dreams alive against the odds and attended a top college, she knows it wasn’t solely due to resilience: success required luck, privilege, and support. In this passionate talk, Nietfeld asks her audiences to throw away the American fantasy that poverty, illness, or any other adversity can be conquered through sheer grit and bootstrapping ingenuity. She urges us to shift our focus from encouraging “resilience” and instead address the underlying social problems and provide individuals the support they need to persevere.

Bridging Engineering and Creativity

When Emi Nietfeld entered Harvard, she had a passion for writing and literature, but needed a career that could lift her out of poverty and debt. So she majored in computer science. Now, a successful writer and software engineer, she proves that “passion versus money” is a false binary—and a classist one. In her relatable talks, Emi Nietfeld encourages students that it is possible to follow your dreams outside of a career. Nietfeld shares her personal journey to becoming an author, and how she’s balanced it with her full time “day job.”

Navigating Mental Health in Adulthood

As a teenager who struggled with depression, anxiety, and an eating disorder, Emi Nietfeld often found herself struggling to hide a taboo subject from admissions committees and employers. In reality, no one is entering college—or the workplace—and leaving their identity behind. In this talk, Nietfeld shares lessons from her mental health journey, with practical lessons on how students and young professionals can address their emotional well-being as they navigate higher education and begin their careers. This talk can also be adapted for higher education administration and faculty who want to better understand how to overcome stigma in the application process for incoming students.

Appearances

Testimonials

  • Our students are tired of the status quo and Emi's self awareness and honesty are exactly what they need as they move on to the next chapter in their lives. These students have been applauded for resiliency without administration realizing how it is their very actions that make it so hard for our students to achieve success.

    — Amaury Avalos, St. Mary’s College

  • I’m a Court Appointed Special Advocate and I brought one of the foster youth I work with to Emi’s event. She was over the moon inspired after hearing Emi’s story. I know whether it’s today, tomorrow or next year, Emi has made an impact on her and her life.

    — Lafayette Distinguished Speaker Series

  • Emi was a super insightful speaker - I really appreciated her perspectives on mental health and resilience. The talk pushed me to reflect and interrogate the way I approach the idea of "productivity" in my life.

    — Vicki Xu, Harvard Women in Computer Science

  • Today Emi spoke to our memoir book group and I have received a text from every member telling me how grateful they are for her wisdom and candor. We want her to come back! She is not only brilliant and generous, she's fun and encouraging. She gave us so much to mull over and consider. Highly recommend it!

    — Alyson Shelton, Author

  • Emi Nietfeld did such a beautiful job presenting the book and answering questions. She is so confident and gracious and an absolute pleasure to host.

    — Book Passage

  • When Emi Nietfeld recently addressed our memoir class, she warmed our hearts and raised our sights with her intelligence, generosity, candor, and helpful advice. Emi is a gem of a person, and her work has already helped me move the needle forward in my own writing.

    — Kelly Morgan, Writing Teacher

Emi is represented by the Penguin Random House Speakers Bureau.